Discussion 4 Family Matters

Q3, Which family system do you think is better?

The extended family or nuclear family system?

A.I believe the extended family is better. There are three reason to state my opinion. One is you can learn differently experience from your related family. Such as life time commitment and because they are your relatives you may have some similarities to them that they can teach you to help guide your in a positive way. Second reason a person to talk to about anything. I have said many problems about what I faced on growing up with my parents but because my grand parents are living apart from my house I can just go visit them anytime and talk them about thing I can't tell to my parents and they can be your best friend sometimes.Lastly you can have more loving people in your life other then your parents. sometimes parents love aren't enough for us to get through things and still you feel lonely but by having more lovers family n your life it is somewhat life saving treasure that you can have.

Disscussion 3 : Love around the world

Q.   
       In the west many couples live together before marriage. Some never get married, but continue to live together and have children. Is marriage necessary/important?

      I believe it is iomportant to live together before marriage the reason behind this is I believe you need to be able to know what it is like to live with your partner. You may find dispointment sometimes of how couples react when they live their life together. Also another point I believe you need to be with your partner at least 2 years to be able to know the partner this includes as living together before you get married. Therefore,it is important to live together before youget married to make sure your partner is the right person as to be part of your life. The other question about if it is necessary to get married or not as what I am seeing from Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt they were doing good so far and they did have their childrens even though they are not married. The reason behind this may be because they want to make sure the partner is the right person and even though they are not married the couple always know that they love each other and thats what matters the most. Therefore, I would say marriage is not necessary important as long as the couples are happy and loving eachother.